Wow, that does sound difficult.
It's been a month, and you sound like you ahve givien him a lot already, including space, which is very important. If he is interested truly in you, and if one day it can work, the time you spend apart giving him time to re-align his priorities and what is important to him, he may realise that you are very important, and that he can (since youre a good, nice person) balance you and his beliefs.
If he doesnt think about it himself, you are going to be asking him for something that is unatural for him at this point in time and with you.
I say, go out with some friends and enjoy yourself, I say, remind yourself of all the great things you ahve done and have in your life, let that be your reassurance that - sometimes, people get along at first but quickly values clash - no matter how much YOU want to make it work - he may not -
and you need to slowly become okay with that! It's far from being a failiure or wrong - that's simply why there are matches made and others jsut dont work!
Take care,
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