I think what astra suggested is a great idea - come up with a list of values, and use those values to prioritize what you want to go after.
But I also think that your gut feeling about what you want to accomplish supersedes any kind of value list and prioritizing you make. You're gonna get three totally different outcomes if you focus on education vs. girlfriend vs. keyboardist. It almost boils down to what sort of life do you want to have. Do you want to go towards your education and finish that degree so you can get a higher paying, stable job, or do you want to forgo that and work on your relationship with your girlfriend?
If after all of your thinking you really really can't decide, pick one, go with it for a (long) while (enough to test it out), and if that option doesn't work, try something else. If you ran out of options or the options dissipated by the time you choose to try another, then you'll have to find new options! Better to go through something like that then to always wonder "What if?", IMO. |