Originally Posted by ZenFender
Yep, my first girlfriend.
Perhaps your reading past it or your ego defense (NOT you) 'skips' this.
Let me reiterate the advice from Dusty and JJH to get into Tolle, hardcore.
He's a PERFECT fit for you, he talks about all the stuff you are talking about.
He will give you the why. He will clarify it.
And he will give you ways to break free from it without creating more 'stuff'.
Seriously check it out.