The lightworker/darkworker conundrum is easier to understand knowing who your energy serves:
Do you serve the greater good above and beyond anything else; is your energy flowing into the greater good, therefore achieving high personal growth?
Or do you serve yourself, and by focusing energy on yourself achieve high personal growth.
As Steve points out, only by polarizing can we achieve the highest states of energy flow or growth momentum, and I think it's great that you have chosen this path.
He also encourages you to try the polarities before committing to them. Just because you did some light work doesn't mean you can't do some dark work.
To put it into a better context to your own personal situation, consider it this way.
A lightworker will round up a bunch of excersize buddies, or start a program at the Gym, to share their excersize skill. Often, they'll start an aerobics class or if you have a job, start a fitness program at work. Set up a website for people to get excersize ideas on, and track their progress. Your goal as a lightworker is to put your energy into helping the greater good; as many people as you can find.
A darkworker will find themselves working out alone in the gym, focusing intently on hitting bodybuilding goals, stamina goals, and be concerned with their own peak performance.
Each of these will eventually become a very physically fit person, but achieve it through different means.
The lightworker/darkworker dynamic doesn't really apply in that sense to a romantic relationship. Those have different dynamics to consider, and are most properly executed as a sharing or culmination of energy sources. Definitely not within the scope of what Steve was trying to say.
Best of luck to you,
~BraveBlueMice |