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Originally Posted by Marco Polo  This is basically the "fake it until you make it" approach. I also have my doubts about it, but nevertheless, I'm convinced that it works for some people. For instance, just a simple thing such as improving your stature (chest out, stomach in etc.) can greatly increase your feeling of confidence. |
But I don't want to change just my posture, or one aspect of my being, I want to change my whole life, I want to be happy and content, and feeling at peace and warm with my life again... I really don't see how faking my way into my relationship with my former friends will really change anything... won't they catch on to my fraudulent endevour? I used to have more poise, and be more confident... but I lost my whole feeling of confidence, and self-worth.