I think if you do find some activity, you will not be so obsessed with having a girlfriend and something strange will happen. A girl will come to you, when you least expect it. Every time I had a boyfriend, I was very busy, getting ready for a fashion show or taking on more clients than I can handle. I would meet a nice guy somewhere and they were impressed with me that I had so much going on. Sometimes the "reality" of having a busy girlfriend would set in and they would break if off, but that's another story.
Despite my experience of having been dumped for a less busy girl, I feel it is better to go on the way I'm going. When I'm not productive, I don't feel good about myself.
The thing to do, is try something. You may not like team sports, but if you want to be physically active, why not take up running or skiing or cycling? If you don't want to do any physical activity, why not look into developing a video game of your own? Or illustrating characters and backgrounds and look for a programmer to team up with? How about writing? I love to write myself and would probably write everyday, if I had the time for it. Keep trying different activities until you find something you really like.
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