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cbreeze · 02-09-2008, 01:10 AM

I've been where you all were for years due to depression over many losses, but have to commend Stephen's ability to recognize that he is responsible for attracting friends. I used to isolate; depressed/victimized about how much life sux, city sux etc. But in truth - you must be willing and allowing of friends to enter your reality. I bid adieu to all my friends, one of 27 years - hard, but, he was so cynical/negative/judgmental. AND SO WAS I! Now, I know that I had to be what I wanted to be with and attract and put out the unseen force to summon new positive fun friends and have loads simply 'appear' - but I've always had easier times talking to strangers than family (heheh - same I guess). Make a list of what kind of friends you want, what do you have to offer (sense of humor, reliability, etc.) and it'll happen, but again, like Stephen said - sup 2 U! Good luck, I send you happiness - and Stephen? You rock.

02-09-2008, 01:10 AM	#15 (permalink)
cbreeze Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: gaia Posts: 94	Simply Stephen? simply awesome I've been where you all were for years due to depression over many losses, but have to commend Stephen's ability to recognize that he is responsible for attracting friends. I used to isolate; depressed/victimized about how much life sux, city sux etc. But in truth - you must be willing and allowing of friends to enter your reality. I bid adieu to all my friends, one of 27 years - hard, but, he was so cynical/negative/judgmental. AND SO WAS I! Now, I know that I had to be what I wanted to be with and attract and put out the unseen force to summon new positive fun friends and have loads simply 'appear' - but I've always had easier times talking to strangers than family (heheh - same I guess). Make a list of what kind of friends you want, what do you have to offer (sense of humor, reliability, etc.) and it'll happen, but again, like Stephen said - sup 2 U! Good luck, I send you happiness - and Stephen? You rock.