[Dharma]

Originally Posted by Erki

But as soon as I sniff a flower or wrap a gift "lovingly", I'm suddenly called gay, castrated, metrosexual or some other names.

Why?

So you can receive the masculine flowing through, but you will only receive the feminine as long as you don't see it or are aware of it. That would be the mirror your buddies are presenting to you when you are caught sniffing flowers and they heckle you.

Ask yourself what's wrong with seeing the feminine aspect of yourself?

My female friends say I'm half-girl, but I don't look or act feminine to them and my buddies don't give me ****. Maybe I'm in reception of my feminine qualities.

Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}

I'd rather go camping than shopping.

^^^ Now there's a real girl.