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Originally Posted by Erin Pavlina  You might be coming across to him as a little needy. Trying to please a man so he'll like you and want to date you smacks of some low self esteem issues. My honest and best advice is that you work on your personal power, confidence, and self esteem before you try to hook up with a partner. Otherwise, in the state you're in you run the risk of attracting guys that will abuse you emotionally, physically, verbally because you're giving your power away to them. |
i must also add this i think, which i think is a problem...i was thinking about him so much after our date sunday. on monday when i woke up i thought about him the whole morning, waiting for him to text me back or call or something. i was thinking and thinking about him and our night and thought that this guy might even be 'the one' that i might marry and stuff....(dumb)...but anyway i was even thinking about his mother who passed when he was fifteen and that maybe she might be looking down and hoping that i may be the one for him and we could have a family and stuff like that...and then i was thinking about manifesting the intention, so i wrote down want i wanted, "Him", and then why it would make me happy and so forth...but still i got nothing. he said we would hang out tuesday, which was yesterday, but he didn't call or text me at all. he text me monday after i had text him saying i regretted being so fast and kissing him so quickly and responded saying don't be so paranoid, he had a great time. but when tuesday came around, i got nothing, no calls, no texts, no emails... i just feel so badly. where was my mind at? what was i thinking about? why didn't u just think and stop obsessing and wanting someone so badly? is this normal?
