Strangely enough, if he was the one you were meant to be with, then you would be with him. If you were meant to break up and get back together later in order to learn something, then that's good too.
What you don't want to do is force the issue. You, as a human being, are immensly powerful, but if you use that power to force a situation, it won't be the situation you want. In fact it will be the exact situation that you broke up with him for.
For you, right now, I can see that you should look for the lesson inside of what's happened, and see what benefit you can take away from the events recently. After that, just relax and take in what life has to offer you right now. Finally, set yourself up to move forward towards the larger aims of your life, those bigger than just being with one particular person. I know you want to give more to the world than just that.
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