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loveliketheflowers · 02-06-2008, 02:34 PM

I'm kind of disappointed. I went out on a date sunday for superbowl with this guy i met online. we went to a restaurant and watched the game then we left during halftime and went back to his house to watch the rest of the game. we were talking and lots of flirting and kissing and stuff....i thought we had a nice time, i was really excited i thought i met someone for the long run...but he hasn't called me since then. i text him and asked i shouldn't of kissed him on the first date and he said he has a great time dont be paranoid...but still i haven't heard from him. i feel really disappointed within myself. i just messed up a good opportunity with probably a nice person because of my bad boundaries and actions. what is wrong with me? i just wanted a friend and i blew it. i dunno what i should do now? should i call or text him and just initiate it to see what is up or going on. or should i just leave it alone and wait for him to possibly contact me and move on. how can i develop some better self-respect for myself when it comes to men and guys so i can get called back again and not just thrown away or dissed or not called back. i really thought we were gonna at least see each other again. and i can't stop thinking about it. i keep checking my phone possesively and hoping and praying that he just call or text me or something. i'm not really sad, just disappointed in myself and that i messed up a nice opportunity. how can i just move on along, and get over this failure?

02-06-2008, 02:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
loveliketheflowers Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 119	What should I do when he doesn't call you the next day after the first date? I'm kind of disappointed. I went out on a date sunday for superbowl with this guy i met online. we went to a restaurant and watched the game then we left during halftime and went back to his house to watch the rest of the game. we were talking and lots of flirting and kissing and stuff....i thought we had a nice time, i was really excited i thought i met someone for the long run...but he hasn't called me since then. i text him and asked i shouldn't of kissed him on the first date and he said he has a great time dont be paranoid...but still i haven't heard from him. i feel really disappointed within myself. i just messed up a good opportunity with probably a nice person because of my bad boundaries and actions. what is wrong with me? i just wanted a friend and i blew it. i dunno what i should do now? should i call or text him and just initiate it to see what is up or going on. or should i just leave it alone and wait for him to possibly contact me and move on. how can i develop some better self-respect for myself when it comes to men and guys so i can get called back again and not just thrown away or dissed or not called back. i really thought we were gonna at least see each other again. and i can't stop thinking about it. i keep checking my phone possesively and hoping and praying that he just call or text me or something. i'm not really sad, just disappointed in myself and that i messed up a nice opportunity. how can i just move on along, and get over this failure?