[Joely]

Hello there,

I love that quote. That's what I'm working on at the moment and I've found my form of releasing (I use the Sedona Method) has really helped me.

I just want to add that I've been silently following your journey and everything you've been through over the last day or so (since I joined and had time off to surf), that even though you might not feel it, you're incredibly strong, resilient and you will get through this. Whenever people have said that to me I get annoyed so I'll add the proviso that sometimes you can't see the strength you have because you're so busy using it.

It's almost five years ago since I walked out on my last relationship, without a penny to my name and no support when I moved to a new city. I'm still single (I'm too damned busy for a relationship right now!) but I guess all I can say is that no matter how hard it seems, you can get through it. Just when you think you've run out of reserves, you'll find another 10% to keep going. I think there's a saying that the gods don't send you on trials you can't complete. I feel ten thousand times stronger, more confident, outgoing, more in touch with what I want in my life and more at peace with myself than at any time in my life. Sometimes it's going through these things that show us just how great we can really be.

Allowing everything to just be is wonderful. I wish you well and I really hope to see more of you and find you having positive happy experiences in the future (well, actually NOW).

J x