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Old 02-04-2008, 04:11 PM   #32 (permalink)
geekchic9
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Originally Posted by Amandaaa View Post
But the point is that you shouldn't use those labels to determine your fate and your future. You can choose to heal that pain, and use your experiences to help other people transform. Maybe you should look into a career where you can give back, and help people who've been through similar struggles... ?
I don't know how to do that without going back to school and getting some sort of degree in counseling, which I can't afford to do at the moment, as I am in a tough financial situation, have lots of problems with remembering things, and am not sure I would stick to such a huge commitment anyway. I can't afford to waste more money.

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^I think that one of the most effective techniques is solution-focused therapy. ...I think it creates quicker results.
Finally, an answer to my question on therapy!

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Stop thinking of yourself as the victim, and choose to become the master of your own life.
I'm not a master of anything.
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