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Originally Posted by Angela  Without taking any action at all, I have transformed who I'm being (okay, well, transforming IS an action!  ) and simply by going about the business of who I am, the likelihood of meeting wonderful potential partners is exponentially increased. I wouldn't necessarily be consciously changing what I do; but my actions would naturally and un-self-consciously be more *attractive* in the sense that I'd be available to what I want to attract, instead of repulsive. |
Still requires action, as you've pointed out.
Sitting at home or living a hermit-like existence, even though you might have all the thoughts about attracting a desirable mate, is not likely to lead to a result.
What's more likely to lead to a result is to get out and about and meet people. That takes action. Take a night-school class. Sign up with Toastmasters or something. Go out with friends and get introduced to new people.
Even if you didn't do that inner transformation work, you're still much more likely to meet someone when you're socially connected than if you did all that inner transformation work and sat around watching TV or playing video games all day & night.