I am a single 35 year old woman who looks and acts about 20. Therefore,whenever i try to find someone online,i get people in their 30's and 40's,which,in person,do not match me at all because they look and act too old for me. And when i'm out in public,i get these young guys who think i'm their age,and then when they find out i'm not,oh then i'm too old for them. So i get screwed no matter where i try to look. But,that aside,i am generally not a fan of online dating because of the simple fact of WHY everyone is there. I dont like being in the company of people who are all unhappy being alone and need someone to make them happy. Its the very act of ACTIVELY LOOKING for someone that i find unattractive. Its almost like a big job interview and you pick the "best" one,even if that person might not even be what you really want,its SOMEONE. Ugh! I'll never lower myself to settling for someone,i did that once,never again. I am single until i accidently casually hit it off with someone i'll meet in person.
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