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Velvet · 11-26-2006, 03:55 PM

ReallyGoodIdeas and ChampChoice:

Thank you so much, this is helpful. (CC, I sent you a PM, too).

It's not so much guilt as shame, but the process sounds similar.

If I can help others by being open here, the problem is wanting to be free from the feelings of romantic longing for a man I'm in love with but who is not emotionally or physically available right now.

I miss him, which triggers these feelings of abandonment, loneliness, unworthiness, hopelessness that I'll ever have a normal, satisfying relationship free of all this drama and up-and-down and cat-and-mouse, etc.

11-26-2006, 03:55 PM	#13 (permalink)
Velvet Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: New York, NY Posts: 136	Eft ReallyGoodIdeas and ChampChoice: Thank you so much, this is helpful. (CC, I sent you a PM, too). It's not so much guilt as shame, but the process sounds similar. If I can help others by being open here, the problem is wanting to be free from the feelings of romantic longing for a man I'm in love with but who is not emotionally or physically available right now. I miss him, which triggers these feelings of abandonment, loneliness, unworthiness, hopelessness that I'll ever have a normal, satisfying relationship free of all this drama and up-and-down and cat-and-mouse, etc.