Massive perspective shift Nobody, I repeat NOBODY can make you feel guilty without YOUR PERMISSION.
Let me repeat that; NOBODY can make you feel guilty without YOUR PERMISSION.
I know you've probably heard this a million times;
You are the only one who is responsible for his/her emotions.
You are the only one who controls his/her emotions, deal with it.
Well yeah I read that a million times and went, yeah perhaps thats true but this fear/guilt trips/anxiety seems to control me all the time.
I can't help it, there must be something wrong with me !
Insert Eckhart Tolle.
The master, the king of enlightenment. The chairman of the holy board.
Spend about 2 weeks listening continouesly to his teachings.
Realized I am not my thoughts.
Realized I am not my mind.
Realized I am not my emotions.
I became more centered.
I became more relaxed.
I Discovered myself.
Stopped listening to Eckhart Tolle (battering my mind away, it needed a break)
Insert Atlast Shrugged.
The queen of writing. The ultimate book on industrial philosophy. The disciplined achiever.
Before I started reading, I set out to put my mind in the perspective of the main characters.
I set out to take on there characteristics and see what happens.
Learned a ton from that experience.
Ultimately it wasn't for me.
Then something magical happened, something truly amazing.
The feeling of *BLING* Offcourse, how could I not SEE?
It clicked, nobody can make me feel guilty ever without my permission.
So I set out for another mind experiment.
Becoming guiltless.
Consciously on unconsciously everybody around you tries to make you feel guilty over something.
To control you.
To make themselves feel better.
To feel bigger then you.
Well I was fed up. No more. Its time to take charge.
I set out to stop the guilt trips.
The results have been truly mind blowing.
More open.
More relaxed.
More fun and loose.
I can ****ing TALK, truly talk without worrying about anything.
Do you have any idea how this feels if you've always had a little agent monitoring yourself?
Feeling guilty about almost everything?
Bringing yourself down?
And then suddenly stopping all that, freeing yourself from all bonds.
Freeing yourself from the environment.
My god what a change.
Guys, stop accepting the guilt trips people try to put you through.
They have no right to control your feelings.
The only power they have is the power you give them.
Take that away from them, you've suffered long enough.
Your responsible for your emotions and they are for there emotions.
Set yourself free !!
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