View Single Post
Old 11-26-2006, 01:52 PM   #50 (permalink)
SamBeaven
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 117
SamBeaven is on a distinguished road
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Radical View Post
Not usually, however in extreme cases yes. Quite frankly I am offended by some of the claims supporters of LoA are making, such as innocent children bringing abuse upon themselves.

There comes a time when you have to say enough is enough!
Mmmm, I'd agree with anyone who said that the children were bringing it on themselves deliberately - that they were asking for it and really secretly desired their abuse. I don't think that's the case either (and I agree that that would be a dangerous belief, as it could be used to justify child abuse).

I do think, however, that ongoing mental states can lead to the perpetuation of abuse, not so much out of desire but out of homeostasis (the human body and consciousness fears change and tries to avoid it wherever possible, even if it's in an actively destructive state - you can see this in addiction, in body temperature, in relationships, diet, pretty much everything). It's not so much that it's the child's fault, and I'd hesitate to say that they were even responsible for it if they didn't know what they were doing - rather, the victim mentality prevents them from getting away from it.
SamBeaven is offline   Reply With Quote