Florida girl,I think you may try watching your thoughts carefully,then i think you will be able to notice the synchronities between your thoughts-beliefs and the external events.I think impatience is a resistance too (at least i've read a similar sentence on a book)I sometimes do the same thing too.
Also,remind yourself this,if the child would give up at his/her first falling,he/she would never be able to walk.
These are advices from an amateur Loa fan
