i agree with everyone that you should tell her. this woman is going to spend the rest of her life with you, love and support you and need your love and support in return. if your marriage is to work, shouldnt it be built on trust and honesty rather than lies and secrets?
if shes the one for you then she will understand and be there for you, if she reacts badly and decides not to be with you, atleast you found out what kind of a person she is before you married her!
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jennifer x |