[Benny2]

Loneliness hurts period!


1- People leave clues of what their interest are. When you go into their rooms just look around and see what is their rooms and strike up a conversion on it.

2- Try asking where they are from and what is it like in their hometown. When they start talking looked at them as you would one of your professor, like what they have to say is important. Listen more than you speak but speak. Do not be afraid to smile of laugh. Just let yourself shine.

3- See what you have in common with each other and just chat even if it is only about your school.

4- Above all stay positive. ...Always the glass is half full... always.



4- Invite them to go to lunch with you or grap a pizza.

5- Be authentic, really want to get to know people and care for people and things should come together.

6- Go to the library and take out a book on social skills and work it.

7- If you truely listen to what is important in people lives you will succeed.

8- Love people, truely have their best interest in your heart.

9- Invited some people over for a card game.



Warning: This does not mean be a apple polisher. Do not allow yourself to be used. Like people asking to always share your homework. Instead invited them to work together on the homework.

These are just some of the things you can do. You have to approach with it with a hands on attitude not a passive seek me out approach.

It is like that old Biblical sayings, knock and the door will be answered, seek and you shell find.

Start by thanking the individuals who took the time to repond to your inquiry.