[Gary]

I can't agree with that feeling sorry part. I think she deserves more respect than that.

There comes a time when these emotional issues can't be resolved by conventional means. All your best efforts to make something better, to make yourself better, to make yourself happier, don't seem to do any good. And all those good intentions pave a road to deeper hell. It's when a person realizes those dead ends, and yet their desire is strong, that the student is ready.

I replied to your email with some instructions to start with.