What I think is that you're making a whole bunch of assumptions (about whether we're going to read your post or not, about whether she likes you or not, about what it means when she's staring at you...) and you take your assumptions for true reality. But they are not. The point is, you don't know at all. And moreover, it doesn't matter. Whether she likes you or not, what it means when she looks at you, and so on, is simply not relevant. It's perfectly useless to obsess over it.
Do you like her? Do you want something to happen between the two of you?
If no, forget the whole story, why bother?
If yes, tell her so. Show her. You're not showing anything. You send her meaningless and mixed messages, that's pointless.
I get the impression that you're making your own behaviour dependent on hers and on whether she likes you or not. That's not being genuine. The point is not if she likes you, it's if you like her. So, get clear about that in your head first, and then act accordingly no matter what she feels.
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