[Rose of Cairo]

One more voice for "tell her" here. It wouldn't be fair not to tell her. She's about to take a life altering decision, so she's got the right to know about what exactly she's deciding. Maybe your anxiety disorder will never play any role later, but it's only fair to tell her honestly what she has to expect if she says yes.


edit: Plus, imagine you don't tell her, and later she finds your medicines (do you really think you can hide them from your wife??), that could kill your marriage.