 Looking, staring, ignoring
Hey there Gozunn
I bothered to read your post. ALL of it. To me this is clear that whatever her intentions are they are not completely innocent. Women can be wily and sneaky and flirty and how do I know? Because I am one. Why I'm going to answer this is because I have two strings to my bow here. I've already mentioned that I'm female and secondly I've studied psychology so will give you some insight into social psychology.
When a girl stares at a guy she wants him to notice her. She is not looking at you because of who you are or how handsome you are, which I'm sure you must be. Her fluctuating mood of then she talks to you all relaxed and then she's tense and then she ignores you means you're her yo-yo. She's playing visual yo-yo with you and every time you respond to it she gets the satisfaction that she has won. Staring back at her is exactly what she wants, now she can even point it out to her friends that you have a crush on her.
A girl with that sort of behaviour is the type that will fry your heart while singing Halliluya. Watch out! Think of her as your sister and train your mind to dismiss any romantic thought about her.
If I were you I'd steer clear, stay away from where she normally hangs out, ignore her when she's around. Get yourself a nice girl who doesn't play games, someone you have a lot in common with. Someone who wants to be with you, not just look from a distance to tease you with 'look what you can't have' eyes. Life's too short for nonsense like that.
Hope this helped.
Peekaboo  |