Sounds to me like you're sending some pretty mixed signals too. You're probably both as confused as each other. I say, work up some courage and just simply ask her. If this has been going on so long, she might not have the courage to ask you. Try smiling at her when she's looking at you, and acknowledge it's happening. But the best way to break this cycle is for someone to be straightforward about it, and if she's not doing that, it's up to you. At least you can put your mind at ease, right?
Good luck. |