Originally Posted by Terumoto
Well it seems like what you're after is happiness. Before you look for something, you need to really know what it is you're looking for, or it will be impossible for you to find it.
So what would it take for you to be happy? What do you think you need in your life to bring you happiness? Once you know that, you at least have some direction.
Yes, I think I'm really looking for happiness and cannot see what it would take for me to be happy.
Until yesterday I would have said that happiness to me means finding a girl and living towards creating my own family... But I think I might be wrong there. I read about Eckhart Tolle just yesterday in this forum and watched some of his stuff and now I really think I need to be happy *first* (by dumping my ego and accepting that I don't need things or other people or the right circumstances to be happy) and *then* - if I choose to - decide about the life I want to live...