PatriceA, she mentioned that she will be meeting him in a month or so; she sounds pretty confident about that, so I guess there is some action entailed here.
Still, I would let go of "I FEEL there is no option (but for us to be together)" if and when you do meet him. It's a way of being that really sucks the freedom out of an encounter -- and anyone who is even marginally famous gets to feel that sucking feeling more than they'd like. It's not a matter of letting go of your desire to meet; it's a matter of letting go of your need to control the relationship if you do meet.
Then again, I understand Linda McCartney began her career as a pretty conniving groupie, and she did ok for herself, apparently.
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