My advice appears to be a little different.
I would say to tell your wife (in advance) that you would like to have a fling with this woman and then let the cards fall where they will. Have the respect to have the conversation. See where it leads you. You'll know what to do after that.
Your wife may ask you not to see the other woman, or she may realize that this isn't a common occurrence and be fine with it. Who knows.
But pretending that you don't have the desire to see the other woman is still pretending, and is still disingenuous in my opinion. And if you can't be honest with your wife then whats the point anyway?
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Dan Linehan
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