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Old 01-22-2008, 01:06 PM
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And for some reason, she says she wanna stay there forever, change her nationality into Australian, and day by day, i realize that she's becoming Australian, i mean, from now, i've lost a friend, she's no more thinking about what happened in her life before being in Australia, she refuses her past. And, she does something that shows she's not as deep as she was, she follows the new life's style....i try to get rid of her, but i can't.
It sounds like she's living in the present, and you're living in the past. If she's going to be gone for six years, you won't be able to maintain much of a friendship anyway. Let her go, focus more on your daily activities as you work towards your future. You are VERY young, and as you grow older you'll see how small a part of your life she really is. It takes a while to get over somebody, but the years you are in tend to fly by.

You'll be fine, just move forward, not backward.
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