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Authority · 01-22-2008, 05:07 AM

OK, friends here's the senario.
Your boyfriend comes to you out of the blue, with this question. What are you lying about? What lies are you telling concerning me. Naturally, Im at a lost for words. He repeatedly, ask the same question. Finally,the big question came. Are you seeing or dealing with someone else? I quickly and firmly said "NO". Well, he goes on to say that he has proof. He refuse to tell me anything more. His logic is he is putting me on notice so that I can discontinue my behavior. He is very emotional, telling me I'm a FU..ING LIAR, I am a hypocrite ect........... However he still refused to show me this proof. I asked him to reinvestgate his proof. Check the time frame(was this proof before our relationship), make sure whatever it is it's mine. He is very adimate, but again no proof. His only question is, are you sure your not lying about something? That very same night we made passionate love. However, he wants to make it clear that I'm a liar and not trustworthy. This is so unfair and frustrating. Why won't he show me this proof? I know,I've done absolutely nothing wrong. If I were guilty, wouldn't it make sense to do things his way. Why would I keep bringing it up? Why won't he just show me the proof, and bring this to an end?

01-22-2008, 05:07 AM	#1 (permalink)
Authority Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 5	Show me the proof. OK, friends here's the senario. Your boyfriend comes to you out of the blue, with this question. What are you lying about? What lies are you telling concerning me. Naturally, Im at a lost for words. He repeatedly, ask the same question. Finally,the big question came. Are you seeing or dealing with someone else? I quickly and firmly said "NO". Well, he goes on to say that he has proof. He refuse to tell me anything more. His logic is he is putting me on notice so that I can discontinue my behavior. He is very emotional, telling me I'm a FU..ING LIAR, I am a hypocrite ect........... However he still refused to show me this proof. I asked him to reinvestgate his proof. Check the time frame(was this proof before our relationship), make sure whatever it is it's mine. He is very adimate, but again no proof. His only question is, are you sure your not lying about something? That very same night we made passionate love. However, he wants to make it clear that I'm a liar and not trustworthy. This is so unfair and frustrating. Why won't he show me this proof? I know,I've done absolutely nothing wrong. If I were guilty, wouldn't it make sense to do things his way. Why would I keep bringing it up? Why won't he just show me the proof, and bring this to an end? Last edited by Authority; 01-22-2008 at 05:10 AM.