I still don't get it - for example imagine i am a 20-stone, ugly woman. I can imagine I am beautiful and expect men to flock to me but it won't happen.
I know this from experience. I have friends who think they are really pretty (ie. parents told them/confidence) but they are not. And they don't get attention they expect from men.
Another example is talent shows such as American Idol - people go on there and you can see that they believe with all there heart that they can sing. But it's evident that they can't.
They see what they want to believe but it's not true....
I am not trying to be stubborn, I am really trying to understand these difficult concepts for my self-development. |