Ok, I don't believe in being fake or ingenuine in any way. So I'll only do that to girls I feel sexually attracted to. And I'll just verbalize that. It's fun for me. Fun.
If it's not fun for you, reframe it. Realize that most of the more "awakened" individuals in our society find EVERYTHING FUNNY. Everything in the world is funny. That is a natural consequence of a state of no-thought when your body feels really good.
With that said, I'll see a girl I find attractive and just verbalize it. And feel it in my body. I might think about sexing her. Whatever. I do it Unapologetically. Loudly and confidently. I wasn't always like this. I IDENTIFIED what I wanted and ALIGNED every ounce of my being with what I wanted. Then I go for it. Like, remove everything in my perception that would not allow me to get it. "Eye on the ball."
You can do this. It's easy. It's fun. If you want it, you can do it. Realize that you are a CONSCIOUS BEING and that at all times YOU CHOOSE the way to act. There are no jail bars or security guards with guns stopping you from thinking, acting, and BEING a different person from who you are now. You could change - zzzap - one day if you so chose to. It could happen if you wanted it bad enough. It happened to Eckhart Tolle (for example).
If you know that doing something is right and want to do something or know you want something but know that something else is blocking you...it's delusion. There is technically NOTHING blocking you.
I amuse myself with everyone. I project sexual state with girls I'm attracted to. It's a combination of physical appearance and their energy/confidence that I perceive that determines if I want to project that and take it to that level.
Hope this helps!
