I am going to offer a different perspective which i'm sure some of you will think is shallow,but its reality,and its been my experience also. I too have only been able to attract men AS FRIENDS...and 2 of my best male friends both turned out to be gay. How is it that i attract these men and not men who want me? I think it all comes down to how attractive you are,physically. This is where people will disagree with me,but i have ASKED guys why they didnt want me and i was told i was "ugly" (yes one guy told me this),i did get the typical "youre too much like a sister to me",well you know what,THAT is a nice way of saying "i like your personality only,not your looks". Thats how i feel about guys that i only like as friends,so i think it applies to both genders. Think about it honestly,men and women; all the people you like sexually are always more attractive than the ones you just think of in a friend way. |