When I was a teenager, I had the biggest crush on a particular rockstar. Boy, was I crazy about him. I dreamed of being with him and knew I would be, someday. Much, much later I happened to be walking past a club and saw that he was guest-appearing, so I dragged my friend in, sat down, and at the break My Big Crush walked over and sat down with us, talked for awhile, got my phone number, and asked me out. We ended up dating for three years.
The O.Henry part? It was the most painful and challenging three years of my life. Dealing with a guy who was famous and his weird feelings and needs around that, dealing with his heroin recovery, dealing with his ego, dealing with his addict ex-wife and screwed-up child.... ack! But I LOVED him! This was not a healthy relationship for either of us, let me tell you.
So if you're wanting to attract this guy, please also keep in mind that your real desire won't necessarily be fulfilled if you land him as a boyfriend.
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