 Baby or no baby?
Dear FW
Many people are in your position at some point in time and when you're there it's scary! For many others what's even more scary is that they had not thought past the sex and suddenly there's a baby on the way. According to me, you are in a much better position because you have established yourselves already in a solid relationship and financial base and have given the matter a lot of thought.
Adopting is not always an option for most parents, but for many that's the only way and the way we treat our children is often the way others will treat our children too. If your parents don't accept the little being because he/she is adopted that would be really sad, but would that change the way you feel about him/her?
As a mother (having had my own children) it has never been easy to bring up children, but it has always been rewarding.
All the best
Peekaboo
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