Aspiring, I don't know if this is "you" at all, but it did help me to throw myself back out in the dating pool.
I remember thinking to myself, "OOOOH! I'll never find another man who doesn't drink or smoke and doesn't do anything wild."
In LOLCAT speak... I were right.
And damn glad of it. Even the best people, in retrospect, can later show you ways they were perhaps not "the best" for you, even if they were just super for you at the time.
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