Bliss Sage, I think I understand what you want -- to write here in the forums as a way of working out your thoughts in writing, to share with others, to be part of the community, and not to get advice unless you request it. Am I understanding you correctly?
Again, just to be clear, at no time did I say "you are wrong, you should do or think x, it's your fault." (I'm not a believer in fault, shame, or blame at all, no how.) For some reason, you hear me saying that even when I specifically say otherwise. (must be the law of attraction -- you get what you focus on!
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What I
do do, though, is to introduce the possibility of taking 100% responsibility, looking boldly at your thoughts, and the possibility of generating something new that works better in creating a life you love. No, THAT's advice! I'm just like Christian with his EFT. And I will try my best to withhold it going forward, unless you ask for it.
I can't guarantee I won't slip up, though. I apologize in advance if I spill.