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Originally Posted by Nermax999  I have always been a shy person but i usually get over it once i get to know the person. But I can never get over the shyness that comes over me when i talk to a girl i like.
Shyness has cost me many good relationships with inteligent and beautiful girls. I know this because I have talked to many of them lately and discovered that while i had a crush on them they liked me at the same time.
After hearing this I have began to prepare my self to talk to a new girl but i think it will be a little bit longer before i actually talk to her.
Many of my friends have told me that this is also a confidence issue and I think they are right because I have hardly any confidence what so ever.
I also feel shy/unconfident in public areas with lots of people or parties were i know nobody at all. this has also stopped me from doing a lot of things because i would rather sit in a corner not meet anybody and watch everybody else have fun.
P.S. This is my first post on any forum ever so I am new to this and if you find any thing i did wrong feel free to tell me so i can better improve myself |
Hey man, I know how you feel. Thanks for sharing your experiences. Let me help you do some reframing. You see, the fact that the beautiful and intelligent girls like you only shows that they see something good in you, that you might have failed to see in yourself.
Look within. Go deep. Find out what is that special thing that attracts them and amplify it...