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Originally Posted by freddy  Thanks for all that great advise, I just started looking into DeAngelo articles.
theknightwhosaysni What kinda success have you had in the last year. following advise from DeAngelo material? I read some of his stuff, and it sound great, but I find it hard to believe a average joe. Could walk up to any hot looking girl, and have them melt in there hands, like he make it out to sound. And He talking about hot hot looking girls in most of what I read about. Just sounds a bit over the top to me. Althought he dose hit on some good points. THANKS FOR THE GOOD ADVISE. Freddy |
I did have some success following DeAngelo advice. However, it is true that his information is a marketed info...I mean, he sells advise to attract "any women you want", "very hot women" etc...This is because it attracts more customers I guess.
However I had my own precise goal when I started looking into this kind of advice, so I did not really care about these superlatives and took what would help me get to my goal. My goal was :
"to meet girls that I would find interesting and that would find me interesting, and girls with who I would learn a lot and we could both grow our cousciousness by being together". (it was intialy formulated in French but that was the idea). Well that is exactly what happened to me.
I started when I did not understand how to behave in a "loving" relationship (I mean different from "friend" relationship) and I learned that.
I met some very interesting girls with who I had amazing moments, conversation and yes, sex.
Now I have a really nice girlfriend and we have a lot to share.
I also met some other guys who where interested by learning dating and we used to go out either in pubs or in the street during the day just to meet some girls. Now I can easily meet new people when I go out and get two or three phone numbers from girls.
Now if I see someone I want to speak to in the bus or anywhere I can go and speak to them.
Suriously, speaking to stranger is one of the thing that gave me the biggest growth experience. I used to fear that a lot and facing this fear gave me great experiences.
One of my big problems was that I found very difficult to express my feelings when I liked a girl and to show I was interested in another way than just friend. I worked on that and gathered the courage to express myself and now I can make compliments and express my feelings.
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I find it hard to believe a average joe. Could walk up to any hot looking girl, and have them melt in there hands
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Indeed an average joe could not do that because he would have average behaviour and average beliefs and so be like everyone else. Now if you mean an average
looking joe then yes, an average looking joe can walk up to a girl and generate
some attraction simply by speaking with her. But ok, this would not mean she would melt or anything, it is not that simple, but it is at least a good start.