The first question that comes to my mind is "Do you have low self-esteem because you have been excluded from many different social groups, or Have you been excluded from social groups because you have low self-esteem?"
I would think the second option seems more realistic, as having low self-esteem will make you behave automatically in ways that won't be attractive to people. But you don't say much in your post. Could you provide us with some more information?
Alos, do you have as much problems talking to anyone new as you have talking to pretty girls?
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