Yup. For a moment, drop her past problems and issues, and just consider Floridagal's
present state of mind. What's her current vibrational level; what's her current emotional state; what are her current dominant thoughts?
And this is my Big Question:
What do you think she's attracting/creating
now?
We will all have slightly different views on that, but I think the vast majority of us will agree that she isn't attracting/creating anything very nice or positive.
Personally, I see her as stuck in the
bargaining stage of the Kubler-Ross grief cycle. She's having internal conversations with a concept called LOA, and the cnversation goes along these lines:
"I did everything right; I visualised; I visited psychics; I meditated; I tried really hard; why didn't you give me what I wanted? Why did my grandmother die? Shouldn't you have given me what I asked for?"
She'll get through it ....... someday ....... We all do ...... She's just taking a damn long time, that's all ..........
(And personally I don't think people should try to do conscious creation when they're stuck at any point of the Kubler-Ross grief cycle. The vibrations are just bad (the person is still grieving, for goodness sakes), how are you going to succeed in pulling off positive manifestations? You'll just end up screwing your own US PR application, as Floridagal has been doing).
I already told her to stop, take a break from LOA, go relax, be happy, cheer herself up, surround herself with friends and enjoyable experiences - and come back to LOA later, if she wants to, when her vibrations have improved.
But nooo, she wouldn't listen. And now she's just making it worse. If you keep obsessing:
"The LOA has failed me ..... Why has the LOA failed me .... I want to know why the LOA has failed me ...... The LOA has failed me .... Why has it failed me ....... I want to know why it has failed me ....."
... seriously, what do you think you're ATTRACTING?