I guess what I mean, is in general, many men don't want into a ready made family. So I guess I am making that leap in my own mind. Right or wrong I don't know.
I would agree it is strange. I did not have any solid dates until I was 36 ish Spent most time working and fishing bar hopping with friend who tried to set me up but I was very very resistant. Met my wife in church got married went 10 year. So now 38 and 8 and 10 year old. Even taking them to school I don't find it the best enviorment to talk with any parents, I think when the time comes maybe the food store?
I guess the underliying issue Is I fear the hurt that comes with the loss of a love. And when your shy it' twice as hard to get out there.
Funny thing is I read all the great post on this forum about shyness and how to get over it. But for me its would be easier to move your house 3" over to the left.
I will set forth my Intentions to meet very sweet woman who is avalible and looking for a life long commited relationship with me and my children. Who would be my perfect soul mate for the rest of my life.
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