If it were me, I would try to get my own place and close the current bank account. Get a new account where your checks are direct deposited and do not give your dad access. Set up a savings for yourself and a budget for your bills. Maybe you could let him know that you will be able to help him out with $50 per week (or an amount that you can reasonably do without) and that's all.
It sounds like he uses manipulation freely. I don't suggest that you try that tactic or anything mean. Just matter of factly let him know that you have to start taking care of yourself and the only way you can do that is to cut back on how much money you give him.
Good luck. I know it's hard dealing with these kinds of situations, particularly with family who you don't want to hurt. But your dad is going too far with what he's taking from you and unless you change the dynamics now, it seems he will just continue.
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