I just recently broke up with a bf i was with for about a year and a half. it ended pretty messy and disappointing. since i have broken up with this person i still went back to go see him cause i felt lonely and had no one else, so i figure, "one more time". well this evening, i really told him i don't wan to see him anymore, ever again. i know this is with my mindset, how can i completely erase this bad person from my memory and just move on and be happy with myself. why would i want to go back to this person, when i know it is a bad situation?
i don't want to be one of those girls/women who ends up from one bad thing to the next...i dont want to be a statistic or at least one of those lifetime movie characters...advice?