The funny thing about these decisions we made ourselves when we were children, Jim.... no one else's assurances really penetrate, because we've got years and years of habitually thinking "I'm worthless" (or nothing, or unloveable, or etc.) acting as a barrier. It just feels so shocking, doesn't it, that someone as incredibly lovely and loving and fabulous as Honeywith4bees could believe that she is worthless.
I mean, it's always really great and helpful to offer support and affirmation, of course. You are such a love bomb, generating good feelings everywhere you go.
And it's up to each of us to dismantle these old pain beliefs that keep us separate and in pain. Unfortunately, nobody else can do it for you!
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