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Originally Posted by Honeywith4bees  Hello Friends ~
It's me again, and I'm right back to where I always seem to end up at, feeling somehow, worthless and worth less than other women. This time, at least, I know that it is not true, however, I still get stuck, over and over again, wondering why on earth certain people I know, women mostly, who don't work as hard I do, or be as nice and giving as I am, or look as attractive as I do, or take care of them themselves so that they can be fit and healthy like I do, why do these people feel ENTITLED to be treated like queens, and I don't??
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I'm confused...and it is quite easy to do!
Treated like queens by whom?
What women? Family members? Co-workers? Strangers?
For the longest time, I felt that way about my sister. I wondered, why she had everything and I had nothing. Then, one day I decided that it wasn't that she felt like she was better than I was. It was that I felt like she was better than I was. So...I stopped comparing myself to her. I realized that she wasn't as perfect as I thought...she was human, like me.
All of the resentment that I felt towards my sister was really directed at myself. I was angry at myself for not accomplishing things in my life, and directing my anger at her. This may not be what you are going through, but I just wanted you to know that you aren't the first person to look at someone and say, "Why her and not me?"