Hey, HB4, the difference between you and these other women is that you have a thought that you habitually believe: "I am worthless." (They have their own thoughts that they habitually believe, you can count on that!). And you are responsible only for yours, not theirs. When you're over there in the business of other women, there's nobody present to take care of your business.
So, here you are, being "I am worthless" -- it's all over your OP -- looking outside yourself, to us, to figure out what you can do to try to overcome "I am worthless", even though whatever you try is doomed to failure because nothing can compete with that belief. The impact is that you are hopeless, stuck, and jealous, and what else? The impact on us is that we're also hopeless and stuck. We can't make you not believe the thought "I am worthless."
All that hopelessness, stuckness, jealousy, and other impacts are present because you are believing a thought in the head of a four year old girl. A ghost is running your life!
So: who would you be right now if you were not believing that thought, "I am worthless"? What would be possible for you if you were to practice letting go of that thought and being a possibility that has inspired you: Being Bold, Beautiful, and Free? (or something new that inspires you now.)
I'm not asking you to stop being "I am worthless" or to start being Bold, Beautiful, and Free. I am asking you to speculate about what would be possible in your life if you chose to practice.
(You don't just do it once and you're done, remember? It's a lifelong practice, letting go of what doesn't work in creating a life you love, and generating something new that makes a difference in creating a life you love.)
Ready to practice?
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