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Old 01-07-2008, 02:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Acting Like Godot View Post
In a co-creator model of reality, we would say that:

(a) Cylon caused his parents to get divorced;
(b) Cylon's mother caused her to get divorced; and
(c) Cylon's father caused him to get divorced.

and that all three statements are simultaneously true.
My ego reacted to "caused" because it would feel blamed. Responsibility is accepting the situation and growing from it as Cylon is working on. Blame or self-blame would equate to playing victim. A penny dropped... thanks.
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