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Old 01-06-2008, 05:30 AM
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This is exactly the same way as I percieve it to be. I do have problems with those who don't see it this way and am truly trying to understand why others percieve it differently.

Maybe it is through personal experience. I have been judged very harshly and I was innocent, though far from perfect. The judgements were made from other's perceptions of my behaviour that had nothing to do with me and everything to do with them.

I believe we all project ourselves through relationship with others and judgement is where it appears. It is a beautiful way of knowing yourself, warts and all.


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Originally Posted by Danni4343 View Post
Wouldn't distinguishing 'good' and 'bad' be judgment?

Every person has their own unique set of standards for "good" and "bad" deeds/behaviors/actions/etc. We "distinguish" 'good' and 'bad' on the basis of those standards. Wouldn't that be judgment?
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